Any luck getting it out yet? HEAT always helps stuck parts, even just a propane torch. I have had the same problem you are having on a Jeep stabilizer, which is fairly similar setup. I actually got mine out with a two jaw puller, which is basically the same idea as a pitman arm puller. And as mysterync said be careful not to bend a drag link if using force.

 

no iv havnt messd wit it today had to go work for the man ive just been letn it soak in blaster all day, just dont know why dodge has to make somin sooo simple and make it a pain in the a**