Well after 3 months and several mechanics i finally found my problem today. I started at rear of transmission and followed wires up to where they went into two big plugs on the bell housing and then they turned up and where rubbing on the water pipe that goes into the oil cooler, one wire had rubbed until it was shorting out. it went to trans but it sure made the engine act up somehow, i want to thank all for the help i got here, thanks again.

 

Right on bro!!! Good work finding the problem.