Begle1's tricycle mod is a go!
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I actually think your tapered nuts would work with those wheels. One problem you have is your studs are too short, you should be able to see threads on your studs when the lug nuts are tightened up. As far as the shop tellin you to retorque it's probably in the fine print on your invoice.
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