well im thinking if he know the family, they will respect him as a family friend maybe... its easier to be stern, but friendly . but thats just me and i have two teenage boys whom which i have to be this way on a daily baises and all theyre freinds have this respect for me....... cause i tell it how it is.......

 

and they know some one knows karate...

 

that helps cause there all bigger then i am,

 

you could always sleep in your truck.