was there a back story to why he didnt like you? cause thats aweful shitty if hes just made cause you banging his daughter haha

 

No one was ever good enough for my girl, thats just the way some old guys are. Shes been married to a fine man for 15 years with no problems that I know of.

It was only my pride that kept me being a ***** for too many years. We finally had a beer on the porch one afternoon, fact is: a couple of them. I kinda apolgized and he said that as he got older and my grandaughter got older, that he sorta understood my prickiness.

Things are pretty cool now. I know because my daughter gets the *** at both of us when we do stuff together.

 

Well my wife's mother and her dad got a divorce when she was young and her brother went to live with the mother and she stayed with her dad. Her dad remarried,Her stepmother I believe is at the root of all this never cared much for my wife. The stepmother had two sons and she did everything for them and her dad spent alot of time with them hunting and fishing and such. Well when I started dateing my wife her stepmom acted kind of wierd. Then I later found out when we had gotten engaded that her stepmom had made up a couple of stories about me and was running me down as much as she could. Now why she did this I have no idea,but on our wedding night the stepmom asked my wife if she was sure she wanted to go through with this.Her stepmothers sister go in on the act and just flat out asked her why are you marring him for. Well after leaning all this I just never go around them because of the two faced people they where. Well I have often wondered what kind of stories she has told my wifes dad about me. I know of a few but its just hard telling what all has been said. So yes there is a long history behind this and maybe after all these years her dad is seeing through some of the lies. Anyways it just hard to say.

 

yeah that sucks. maybe her dad will eventually see through all the **** and see what the truth is. and to the sisters and stepmom

 

I couldnt say it better myself.

 

It sucks that you didn't get to try the hill but all in all I think it was for the best. The way it went down is the best way it could have for you and your father-in-law to have a good relationship down the line. Anything else would have gave him another thing to look down on you for. Keep your chin up and let your actions speak for you. I know how hard it is (my family is exactly as you described) but you can handle it!

 

keep your chin up bud

 

not a nice guy, is he.