whats new right??
anyway we are over our little problem... i'm just running out of things to say.

she just texted me said "i'm all done arguing"....

to me that says end of subject... her best friend is telling me it's a good thing cuz she's agreeing with me and i'm supposed to say somthing nice back...

i need somthing creative, this winter has been getting to me i been at lack of thought since i got laid off... anyone have any suggestions?

 

Women get the last word in every argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument. I think your getting set up I got nuthin. Just when ya think ya got'em figured out they throw ya curve ball. Be careful!

 

don't let her **** someone else in anger. thats all the advice I have.

 

I am sorry, I love you, I will try to listen to you better next time, lets practice cunnilingus.

 

I dont have any idea what the issue was, I haven't been on in a while if this refers to something in a previous thread, but if you think she means it in a nice way, if you are comfortable with where things are at, then let it go, and just say something like,
"Okay. I'm glad to leave it go, too, and get back to what's really important, and enjoy some time together."
Then, suggest some kind of nice thing to do together that you've either enjoyed before or have talked about doing, to just bring things back on track. Maybe a country ride, or dinner out, or make a dinner and stay in, a walk by the river (if it's not too cold, and if there is one near-bye). My personal favorite: catching a nice sunset.

If you think she's being sarcastic, and just waiting for the next round of the fight, I got nuthin. If a person is just looking for a fight there's not much you can do. Maybe just say, "I'm really glad. I don't want to fight about this anymore, either," and then see how she replys.

Like I said, I don't know the situation at all, but I do know it is really easy to misunderstand someone in a text or email cuz you can't hear their tone of voice or see the expression in their eyes.

Hope it works out for you.

 

and thats why i got divorced
i have been with this girl for 3 months, she doesn't do antyhing. just goes to work or stays home watching tv, she's a single mother so she can't go to far... she doesn't seem like that type....

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gees thats nice, but what do i say to her?

 

Are you bummed about losing this woman?
I've been having **** luck lately too... Normally I just let go and move on as quickly as I can. Always works better that way but it's still so frustrating.

 

nope, i told her yesterday...that if she's not willing to work this out just let me know when it's ok to pick my stuff up. apprently that bothered her, her best friend has been talking to me she told me what i said really got to her.

 

well then she has some feelings for ya
sometimes its just better to swallow yer pride and say your sorry
tell her being laid off is getting to ya and thats why ya get bitchy

 

X2 been there more than once been with my wife for 17yrs on Jan 31st and will have been married for 14yrs in march . But ya just kinda gotta know when to hold em and know when to fold em. As for what to tell her you know her better than us but just like was said before something nice and maybe a little get away or drive for a few hours. Good luck buddy hope all is gets better I feel for ya relationships can be a b!t(#. sometimes.