i know thats what she wants... so i'm probably gonna just have to give in.

but the problem started like a week and a half ago now, that weekend she didn't show any affection hardly at all wouldn't even sit on the couch with me.. and all last week, when i was home at my place for the week, she texted some, she wouldn't even call. we talked last Wednesday night. then not again until saturday. witch is kinda wierd cuz since we met we talk every night for at least an hour minimum.
but saturday i talked then went to her place saturday night, same thing no affection, no nothin... so yeah i'm starting to think she's loosing intrest.. so that morning i packed my bag and left before she got out of of bed, i left some stuff there because i couldn't fit it in my bag for the most part.
still we havn't talked since just texted. but i guess her whole reasoning is she gets really depressed and doesn't want to talk to anyone... he friend confirms this and said she does this once in a while and has for years now..

she really is a good person, i'm just having a hard time dealing with this.
i sent her a text a little while ago apologizing for my behavior.. witch i hate to do, because i don't see this as being my fault.

 

ya also might want to think maybe she is acting this way because she is scared
the kid might be liking you too and she is afraid of them getting hurt if things don`t work out with you 2

 

Nice thinkin busta!

 

yeah, that thought crossed my mind but i don't bring it to her attention.
i guess thats somthing she should really think about before she starts acting up.

her son is 9 so he's easy to talk to, he tells me stuff i don't think he tell's his mother.
like he got a wii for christmas, she took almost 2 weeks after christmas just to get it out of the box! he told me the other day they have only payed it 3 times since he got it.
that like torture to a kid.

 

ya ever think that maybe that is why she is acting up
9 year old boy is looking for a father figure
he is gonna be telling her things he don`t tell you too
its tough taking on a ready made family
sounds like the 2 of ya need to sit down and talk
take em out to my romantic restaurant mickey d

 

Yep sounds like a good ol fashioned heart to heart. I my self have a hard time talking about what i am feeling so I can relate to her and just bottleing it up and not saying anything and the gettin all pissed or quiet. But yea if you can really get her to open up and let you know what she is feeling thats what you need to do with her if you can get to talk. And if she does start to open up and if she is anything like the way I am you just need to be receptive open minded and calm to what ever she has to say. Cause with me if someone starts gettin mad or thinkin im a dumbass or something like that I'll just shut up and its all over for me. So if you can just have a nice calm talk with her to see where you two stand and what your furture holds as a couple.

 

94Matt's #1 rule for dating- No chicks with kids

It will always be an issue that will haunt other aspects of the relationship.

I'd say just let her go and move on.

 

i can't she won't call me just text. i tried calling her twice... only friggan twice for the last week in a half. and her frinds just say she needs a little space.. it's not like i'm smothering her. trust me i want to talk, it's difficult to understand everything through texting. i hate that **** any way. but apparently it's the only way she's will to tell me whats goin on.
i tried to talk to her the other night in bed, she wouldn't say anything, i asked is it somthing i did, she said no i told you u didn't do anything.... that's all i could get out of her

 

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