ok well, i found out why she broke up. She was with someone saturday night.
she broke up saturday morning..........

let me tell yah i'm having a hard time keeping calm.
i have broke just about everything around me trying to keep my self from going to her.

i need alot of those fringe benefits right about NOW...

 

Does she have a best friend or sister? It might sound like a rude awfull thing but it will make you feel better so you dont start taking people on boat rides with buckets of wet cement

 

I always had a couple of these on the side when i was single... i could fill a Whole weekend that way!


I'm a *****

 

HAHAHAHAHA that is a god way to fill a whole

weekend

 

yeah great idea's but i'm not that type of person.

i would like to show the guy how i felt. i knew 13 years of weight lifting would come in handy one day.
jail or no jail, i just don't care. i would pay to find out who he is...

 

NO JAIL buddy thats what scopes and lots of powder are for (for fear of future reprocutions i admit this was a joke) Maybe a sack full of taters is a more humane approach though

 

it isnt worth it. move on. it was probably for the better. If she didnt have a problem moving onto someone else then marriage wouldnt have changed anything. you just dont do that to someone you were with for that long. it shows you what kind of person she was. Just laugh. because chances are the guy she moved on to is going to find out as well.

 

Hate to tell you this but she was with someone a while before Sat nite if that's how it played out. Maybe not physically but you get my drift.

F - Her. You're better off.

Dont beat yourself up about it and dont give her another chance. People dont change unless they have had some sort of life altering experience. Sometimes then it's even suspect.

There's someone out there that WILL appreciate you and what you have to offer.

Just be thankful that this happened now and not after you were married and kids were involved.

You'll be allright.

 

Go to the gym buddy thats how I clear my head or take the weekend to go try something new or just a road trip or something. Driving wherever the road points helps me too.

 

take it from a guy who's been in his fair share of scrapes over the years and hear me when i tell you it's not worth it. she is just as guilty as he is and kicking his *** won't change anything. instead, it'll probably draw her closer to him. (yah i been there). she's made her choice and she'll someday regret it. i know it seems easier said than done but you just have to walk on this. getting yourself in trouble really won't do you any good. take some time and think about what has happened then figure out a way to begin moving on. go find yourself a FWB if you have to but just find some sort of a distraction from this for atleast a few hours of the day.

this sucks warren. hope things get better for you.