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Old 08-12-2007, 05:31 PM
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Default umm ok so now what? how's this work?

to make a long story short. i'm single... i was engaged for 6 years!
between bills and trying to live we could never gather enough money to get married. so we broke it off the other day.

i have only been single for a few days. but if just feel so lost.. like i don't know what to do next... weird huh?

so i was lookin at myspace seeing who was available for people i went to school with. all the good ones seem to be taken...

i went to the bar last night. umm way bad idea. a 37 year old dunk redneck chick wouldn't leave me alone when she heard me telling a friend i was single.

i think i lost my game?

don't even think about Aff.com not going there i'll probably get crabs.



so if you guys don't see me around much, don't worry i'm not far.
probably at the gym.... i have been there for 2 days a week about and hour and half each day.
now that i don't have to be home so much. i think i'll be at the gym more. like i use to befor i was engaged.
 

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Old 08-12-2007, 06:49 PM
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It takes a while to get used to change, no matter what the change is. But once you do, you won't even miss her. By the way, you won't find another good one again until you stop lookin and give up, then all the sudden she will pop up out a knowwhere. I went 16 years, and through 6 live ins between divorce and bein re-married. I'd move em in until they started gettin to comfy and bitchin at me about stuff, then I'd move em out. Finally found one that was good enough to be worth puttin up with the bitchin from.
 
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Old 08-12-2007, 06:54 PM
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More than 1 way to skin a cat, if you want it bad enough.

You don't seem lost, just out of an old comfortable shoe routine, that's all.

Good luck, stay strong, and move on.
 
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well...you're already catchin lobsters...crabs shouldn't be to hard huh???
 
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Old 08-12-2007, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Uncle Bubba
It takes a while to get used to change, no matter what the change is. But once you do, you won't even miss her. By the way, you won't find another good one again until you stop lookin and give up, then all the sudden she will pop up out a knowwhere. I went 16 years, and through 6 live ins between divorce and bein re-married. I'd move em in until they started gettin to comfy and bitchin at me about stuff, then I'd move em out. Finally found one that was good enough to be worth puttin up with the bitchin from.
i know what you mean.. seems like i always found a good girl when i least expected it or i wasn't available.

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well...you're already catchin lobsters...crabs shouldn't be to hard huh???
LOL i don't own any crab traps.
 

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Old 08-12-2007, 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted by bow2no1
i know what you mean.. seems like i always found a good girl when i least expected it or i wasn't available.



LOL i don't own any crab traps.
I think you'll manage big guy
 
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Originally Posted by 2001shrtbedcummins
I think you'll manage big guy
oh thats just great... 1st you tell me i'm gonna catch crabs, now yer callin me fat........
 
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Originally Posted by bow2no1
LOL i don't own any crab traps.
From my experience Warren, modifying lobster traps into crab traps is not a horrible task, but its more cost efficient to just make crab traps instead of modifying the lobster ones.

Sucks to hear the news but yeah. It will blow over man. Then when ya least expect it somone new will come along. Dont let this get ya too down man, stay strong!
 
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The secret to my happiness when I was single was to always have a phone number on the side of one that was always willin to fill in.

I had more to this post but I decided to delete it. I'm gettin to goddamn propper in my old age.
 
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Originally Posted by Uncle Bubba
The secret to my happiness when I was single was to always have a phone number on the side of one that was always willin to fill in.

I had more to this post but I decided to delete it. I'm gettin to goddamn propper in my old age.
Ah Yes, the proverbial "Friends with Fringe....."
 

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