Hey guys for any of yal who don't know me. My name is Kody Redman from California. Well awhile ago my grandpa got panceratic cancer and stage 4 cancer threw out his body and I'm not sure how many tumors. He also got amonia. He just got put on hospice yesterday(Home hospital pretty much) the docotors don't think he will live much longer and niether do my pa and I. Well I have a hard time showing my emotions to anyone besides my dad. Well he is the only grandpa that I have well I have another one but haven't talked to him in 7 years cause he put my parents threw BK and now he doesn't consider me or my dad his son or grandson. My mom is tore up and breaks down more and more she see's my grandpa go threw all of cancer and his slow death "as some can say it". I am dealing with it fine and so is my dad. I would apperciate any help if you could pray(if you want) for my grandpa(Tom) so he would heal or just be in a happyer place, I would also greatly apperciate if you pray for my mom(Tina)for she can stay strong.

I apperciate your help and even if you just read this. Thank you fellow diesel friends or even if I've never talked to you thank you. And God Bless you, and this site

 

my prayers are with you and your family man thats a hard thing to go through.

 

I will pray for your grandpa and your family and you. If you are taking it well. then be there for your mom. ife is short but TRUE Love is everlasting.

 

i will say a pray he isnt in any pain, and one for the rest of your family, in the time of pain. my grandpa didnt have cancer, but had alot of lung problems, and we had to watch him suffer for a few years suffering. its a hard thing to go through, so im glad ur handleing it well. if ya need to vent, feel free to.

 

prayers sent to you and your family.

 

Be strong man. If you and your dad are taking it well like powerstroke cowboy said be there for you mom and help her pull through it. Let this be a time to bring your family closer together. Life is short and there are no gaurantees what the next moments will bring us. Ill be praying for your grandpa and your family that whatever the lords sees fit will happen.. Keep us posted..

 

There is no way to make it easier for any of you, it is really hard to lose your dad, or your grandpa. But you can be there for each other, comfort each other, especially your mom--my dad died 4 1/2 years ago with cancer/tumors, alot of pain and it was hard to watch it happen. There's no way to make it easy, but some things help you get through, like being together, spending as much time as you can with him, enjoying the moments he is in less pain, talking about happy times, ask him about some of his favorite things. If his favorite tree is a sugar maple, maybe plant one in his honor, that you and your family will have to look at and enjoy after he's gone. Find out his favorite movies so you can feel a part of him there later, if the movie comes on. Make sure he knows what you love most about him, so he can take those thoughts with him when he's in a lot of pain.
You and your family are in my prayers..

Keep us posted..

 

Thank yall for all your help. i am not a emotional person and never cry but that kinda brought some tears my eyes. Thank you for yer guys consern and respect. Me and my dad and taking care of her very well. For almost three weeks they stayed down at the hopspital and I had to stay at home to run the shop and go to school, it was hard stayin home by myself and taking care of the animals and shop and the house especially the house because it flooded and insurance tore apart are house. But everything is get better and I respect you guys for your prayers.

And Bigred I apperciate the offer of if I need to vent to you.

SunSetSky I like your idea about planting a tree.

I again thank everyone you who responded or just red this post.

Thank you fella's

 

 

my prayers for you and your family