umm ok so now what? how's this work?
 

to make a long story short. i'm single... i was engaged for 6 years!
between bills and trying to live we could never gather enough money to get married. so we broke it off the other day.

i have only been single for a few days. but if just feel so lost.. like i don't know what to do next... weird huh?

so i was lookin at myspace seeing who was available for people i went to school with. all the good ones seem to be taken... :madd:

i went to the bar last night. umm way bad idea. a 37 year old dunk redneck chick wouldn't leave me alone when she heard me telling a friend i was single.

i think i lost my game?

don't even think about Aff.com not going there i'll probably get crabs.
:tttt:


so if you guys don't see me around much, don't worry i'm not far.
probably at the gym.... i have been there for 2 days a week about and hour and half each day.
now that i don't have to be home so much. i think i'll be at the gym more. like i use to befor i was engaged.

It takes a while to get used to change, no matter what the change is. But once you do, you won't even miss her. By the way, you won't find another good one again until you stop lookin and give up, then all the sudden she will pop up out a knowwhere. I went 16 years, and through 6 live ins between divorce and bein re-married. I'd move em in until they started gettin to comfy and bitchin at me about stuff, then I'd move em out. Finally found one that was good enough to be worth puttin up with the bitchin from.

More than 1 way to skin a cat, if you want it bad enough.

You don't seem lost, just out of an old comfortable shoe routine, that's all.

Good luck, stay strong, and move on.

well...you're already catchin lobsters...crabs shouldn't be to hard huh??? :tttt: :tttt: :tttt:

i know what you mean.. seems like i always found a good girl when i least expected it or i wasn't available.

LOL i don't own any crab traps.

I think you'll manage big guy

oh thats just great... 1st you tell me i'm gonna catch crabs, now yer callin me fat........ :dd:

From my experience Warren, modifying lobster traps into crab traps is not a horrible task, but its more cost efficient to just make crab traps instead of modifying the lobster ones. :D

Sucks to hear the news but yeah. It will blow over man. Then when ya least expect it somone new will come along. Dont let this get ya too down man, stay strong! :c:

The secret to my happiness when I was single was to always have a phone number on the side of one that was always willin to fill in.

I had more to this post but I decided to delete it. I'm gettin to goddamn propper in my old age.

Ah Yes, the proverbial "Friends with Fringe.....":da2:

ok well, i found out why she broke up. She was with someone saturday night.
she broke up saturday morning..........

let me tell yah i'm having a hard time keeping calm.
i have broke just about everything around me trying to keep my self from going to her.

i need alot of those fringe benefits right about NOW...

Does she have a best friend or sister? It might sound like a rude awfull thing but it will make you feel better so you dont start taking people on boat rides with buckets of wet cement

I always had a couple of these on the side when i was single... i could fill a Whole weekend that way! :U:


I'm a whore :sen:

HAHAHAHAHA lollollollol that is a god way to fill a whole

weekend

lol yeah great idea's but i'm not that type of person.

i would like to show the guy how i felt. i knew 13 years of weight lifting would come in handy one day.
jail or no jail, i just don't care. i would pay to find out who he is...

NO JAIL buddy thats what scopes and lots of powder are for (for fear of future reprocutions i admit this was a joke) Maybe a sack full of taters is a more humane approach though lol

it isnt worth it. move on. it was probably for the better. If she didnt have a problem moving onto someone else then marriage wouldnt have changed anything. you just dont do that to someone you were with for that long. it shows you what kind of person she was. Just laugh. because chances are the guy she moved on to is going to find out as well.

Hate to tell you this but she was with someone a while before Sat nite if that's how it played out. Maybe not physically but you get my drift.

F - Her. You're better off.

Dont beat yourself up about it and dont give her another chance. People dont change unless they have had some sort of life altering experience. Sometimes then it's even suspect.

There's someone out there that WILL appreciate you and what you have to offer.

Just be thankful that this happened now and not after you were married and kids were involved.

You'll be allright.

Go to the gym buddy thats how I clear my head or take the weekend to go try something new or just a road trip or something. Driving wherever the road points helps me too.

take it from a guy who's been in his fair share of scrapes over the years and hear me when i tell you it's not worth it. she is just as guilty as he is and kicking his ass won't change anything. instead, it'll probably draw her closer to him. (yah i been there). she's made her choice and she'll someday regret it. i know it seems easier said than done but you just have to walk on this. getting yourself in trouble really won't do you any good. take some time and think about what has happened then figure out a way to begin moving on. go find yourself a FWB if you have to but just find some sort of a distraction from this for atleast a few hours of the day.

this sucks warren. hope things get better for you.

lol nah i sold my browning 300mag. i'm not much of a gun person.
the only gun i have now is a .22 remington. keeps the fox's away from the chickens.

buy some foxes then we are already finding things for you to do! I would seriously just have some time for you. Do al the fun stuff you wanted to when you were tied down because before you know it love will bite you on the ass again and you wont be able to get away with it again

yeah i know, i keep tellin my self the same thing. somehow i think i will feel better by causing bodily harm. i don't know who he is any way.
probably a good thing

I thought that once too man but it is cheaper to go to the gym than buy a new windshield for somebody and pay for their stitches too. I am glad the wife took the mean streak out of me. Hopefully it is gone for good. I wish we could all be there and take you to get some chicken and beer and maybe a lap dance.

i wouldn't be oppossed to you giving him a good hard kick in seeds just before you yelled "good luck getting any tonight Fu**o!!" i'd be ok with that. lol.

lollollollol I think bow wouldnt have a problem with that either

I went through a very similar deal, ingaged for 6-7 years, broke up when i found out she cheated on me.
It was hard for a long time but i got involved with things to keep me busy, the idle time was the worst.
I spent alot more time in the deer woods bow and rifle hunting almost every friday night, Saturday and Sunday durring season. I joined a pool league and played in pool tournaments every week, went to the bar/poolhall and played pool alot with friends, etc.
I did this as a single guy for 10 years all the while looking for that right gal. I got tired of looking and dating and kinda stopped looking and thats when i met my wife. I wasn't looking at all and then all the sudden i fell face first in it.

Chenry is right man dont get down get out.

The way I look at it, Her loss dude.

I was single for 2 years after my ex left. I dated, messed around, etc. Never gave marriage a second thought. My wife found a personals add on a christian website that I had filled out and she contacted me to chat about what we had in common. She was recently divorced. I knew the moment I met her, she was exactly who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Done deal :U:

I also bought me a cruiser motorcycle and some leathers and rode it to canada twice in two years...by way of Sturgis of course. One of those things that I always wanted to do but wasn't so feasible untill i was single.

Hey bow, buy me a plane ticket and you can beat me up. I need a vacation from summer time. :U::c:

LOL thats a great idea!

i figured a couple black eyes and just a few broken bones.

but hey,
i'll kick 'em in the jimmy.

gees your about half way from where you started. might as well keep driving


i'm not to worried about findind some one. i just want the "right one"
i have already been looking at hayabusa's

thats all the lovin i'll need for a while.
187mph from the factory! mmmm thats horney right there

her name isnt megan and didnt tell you she was pregnant with your twins did she? oh crap wrong post..


lol.. stay strong man.. it took me a while to get over mine.. even though im still not over her after 10 years of dating i wonder why. but after the initial shock is over and you keep yourself busy its not so bad.. i have more money that i know what to do with.. ok i lied im still broke..lol.

if she calls and tells me she pregnant...
i won't have a computer left to talk to you guys on.

i think i'm going to close this thread. i'm starting to get a bit ticked...