oil cooler upgrade?
 

So I'm planning on ordering my egr delete this weekend and I'm trying to decide whether or not to get the kit with a new oil cooler or just get the delete and save my money for a remote oil cooler upgrade

I would do either one while doing the delete. Youll already be in there. Also, make sure and add a coolant filter kit. The filter kit will increase the life of your new oil cooler.

I was planning on that right now I'm just getting all my parts put together

The coolant filter is the most important thing to add, and yes do the oil cooler rebuild and you will wind up saving a ton of money in the future.