From what I been told is that the 94-95 2gen 47r tranny doesn't persay have a ECM to it However the 96's on up DO have a accessable "ECM" to the tranny I found this out after being told to "flash" the tranny and was shown that I can't my 95 the box on the firewall is just for the engine but 96's and up has modules for the tranny and I forgot to mention earlier that I also replaced my throttle position sensor may not help but you never know

 

I will look into all the ideas and suggestions you have told me.
looks like ill be buying a scanner tool, i only have a obd2 gosh danget.haha